podcast 003: redefining success, connection, and the big job myth
In this episode, Deb is joined by attorney and HX ally Gretchen Miller Busch for a powerful conversation on redefining what it means to flourish—especially in demanding careers.
"The call always comes first—and connection is what gets you that call."
Gretchen, a partner and leader at a top U.S. law firm, shares her journey navigating motherhood, marriage, and management while actively reshaping the culture of law to center human connection. Together, they explore the myth of work-life balance, the courage required for work-life blending, and why genuine relationships are not only good for people—but critical to business success.
Gretchen also details how she’s bringing human flourishing to life through a groundbreaking program she launched for rising partners, proving that connection-building activities (even goat yoga!) can drive retention, collaboration, and revenue in professional services.
Key Highlights:
Why “having it all” is about integration, not perfection
The myth of balance vs. the truth of blending
Human connection as the foundation of client and colleague trust
How professional services firms can operationalize flourishing
A behind-the-scenes look at an innovative cohort model transforming workplace culture
About Our Guest:
Gretchen Miller Busch is a partner and management board member at a top national law firm, where she is leading initiatives to center connection, collaboration, and culture in one of the country’s most competitive industries. She is also a proud Gen X mom, wife, and advocate for redefining what thriving looks like in modern leadership.
About The HX Collective:
The HX Collective is a movement to elevate the human experience—at work, in relationships, and with ourselves. Through honest conversations and strategic insight, we explore how connection, context, and compassion can create a more flourishing world, starting right where we are.
